Our President has some ideas on how you can ignite conversations about gender equality in our state and around the world
New Hampshire citizens and supporters of the NHWF,
March is Women’s History Month! If you are looking for a way to do something meaningful, then I have just the suggestion. Contact your area schools and offer to come do a classroom presentation. As a former teacher and a sometimes presenter in local classrooms, I know how much this is appreciated. It’s also critically important for girls to see women who actually work in some of the professions about which they may be thinking. Our own Nyomi Guzman presented to 800 students at UNH-Durham on March 16. (Go Nyomi!) Just call the school, identify yourself, and let them know you’re willing to do a classroom presentation for Women’s History Month if any teacher is interested. The theme for 2015 Women’s History Month is “Weaving the Stories of Women’s Lives.” Don’t know what to talk about? Here are some suggestions: How are things different today than they were when you were their age? In my case, for instance, women could not get their own credit cards. Share with them your successes and also some challenges of “making it” in your chosen profession.
Here’s a timeline of women’s history that you can share:
Visit the website for the American Assn of University Women which has some ideas and links:
Make your list of the ten most powerful women. (Time’s list is at http://www.timeforkids.com/photos-video/slideshow/10-powerful-women/81386) Be sure to find out who they would add to that list.
Talk about someone close to their age, like Malala Yousafzai, who is making history:
We are collaborating with the Women’s Heritage Trail here in NH, so focus on the 27 NH women for whom herstorical markers will be placed around the state – be sure to note the ones in your region:
Talk about New Hampshire Women’s Foundation and why there’s a need for our organization:
Be sure to let us know where you went, what you discussed, and how many students’ lives you impacted by commenting on this blog.
A World of Possibilities
Back when I was young, if you were to ask a teenage girl what she wanted to be, the answer would inevitably involve one of the “helping” professions like nursing, social work or teaching, or maybe she wanted “to get married.” I spent years teaching high school mathematics from which I received both enjoyment and great reward, and I’ve been married to a remarkable man for decades.
When I was in high school, girls did not aspire to be political leaders. But, I am also happy to say that I felt comfortable as the Speaker of the largest statehouse chamber in the country.
All girls should have, and should fully believe they have, a world of possibilities open to them!
What happened between then and now that changed me from simply going along with the status quo to actively advocating on behalf of women and girls began with an incident that, unfortunately, is still too common. During my early 20’s, I worked down the hall from a single mom in Charleston, SC. One night she was sexually assaulted when a man broke into her apartment. I witnessed firsthand the devastating impact it had on her life. I saw how it crippled her. I felt helpless – and angry, and I wanted to do something about it!
Enter People Against Rape. PAR is a sexual advocacy program offering support and services for survivors of sexual assault. They offered the survivor comfort and helped her to take back control of her life. They offered me a wonderful opportunity to learn more about sexual violence, to advocate on behalf of survivors, to write and speak about this issue, and to work for systemic cultural change. In short, I became an activist.
And so began a lifetime of advocating for women’s economic, social and political equality. In the process I honed my skills and increased my knowledge.
After moving to New Hampshire, I put these skills to use at SASS (Sexual Assault Support Services), SHARPP at UNH (Sexual Harassment and Rape Prevention Program), and NARAL Pro-Choice NH. After all, how can a woman feel powerful if she feels the constant threat of violence? How can a woman feel powerful if she can’t even make decisions about her own body and healthcare? How can a woman feel economically powerful if she’s taught from an early age that there are certain fields of study that “girls don’t do”?
Almost two decades ago, I was convinced to turn my efforts to the political realm, essentially to change the venue for my activism. I worked not only on sexual violence and reproductive choice, but also on issues of social and economic justice, including increasing the minimum wage, pay equity, and expanding the availability of affordable early childhood education. Ultimately, I was elected by my colleagues as the speaker of the house. In that role I was ever conscious that I would be judged not just as myself, but as a woman speaker. I felt the extra weight of gender as my actions were scrutinized. I hope I represented women well.
Today I have the honor to be the first to lead The NH Women’s Foundation, a newly merged organization whose mission has been my life’s work. Fortunately, a lot has changed since I was a teenager – and even since Beijing in 1995 – but there’s so much more to do.
I hope you’re as ready as I am to roll up your sleeves and work and to raise your voice. It will take a very large chorus, but the result will be a better world not just for women and girls, but for families, communities and businesses as well. There’s no better time than now for you to get engaged with the Women’s Foundation.
With over 100 years of shared history in this newly merged organization, we are moving forward with a shared mission to promote opportunity and equality for women and girls in the Granite State. Join us, in whatever way is most comfortable for you…join a committee, make a donation, participate in one of our upcoming Listening Sessions. I will be traveling across the state over the next few months and look forward to seeing old friends and meeting new ones! In the meantime, feel free call me to discuss ways that you can work with us to help drive our mission forward.
The documentary film ‘A Path Appears’ was shown at the Red River Theater in Concord last night. It was an incredible opportunity for the New Hampshire community to come together and learn about a topic that may be unexplored by many: human trafficking.
The New Hampshire Women’s Foundation was able to host Jasmine Marino, who is a survivor of human trafficking, after the film showing and the audience had the chance to hear about her experience first-hand and how this impacted her life. She even championed changing the law in New Hampshire to help prevent human trafficking in the state and we are grateful for her efforts.
You can see a Letter to the Editor from State Representative Suzanne Harvey in the Concord Monitor in this link here. This film and event fully follows the New Hampshire Women’s Foundation’s “Supporting Women and Girls at Risk” agenda item. Make sure you let us know what you think of the film!
The Eagle Tribune just released an article that shows the progress that women in New Hampshire made during this past legislative session. Below is a short quote from the article that summarizes the new laws:
“The laws, adopted by the Legislature last session, do everything from bolstering domestic violence regulations to making sure women receive equal pay.
They include the establishment of domestic violence as a crime and the termination of parental rights for men who rape and impregnate women.
The state’s new equal pay law targets employers who discriminate by paying women less than men doing the same job.
The law also cracks down on employers who retaliate against workers who discuss their wages while on the job.
Other laws that took effect New Year’s Day no longer consider adultery a crime in the state and make it illegal to financially exploit someone who is elderly, disabled or not able to care for themselves.”
For more information on each issue, click here.
Bob and Sue Thoresen create the Leave a Legacy Thoresen Challenge
*As seen in the NHWF Winter 2014 Newsletter
Bob and Sue Thoresen have dedicated themselves to helping the future of women and girls in New Hampshire by creating the foundation for NHWF’s Endowment fund. This way, all NH citizens can help support the progress of our state and those that reside in it. We appreciate Bob and Sue’s generous gift, and now we need your help!
“We’d like to see the Endowment grow to be $5,000,000, which would then provide the operating support to allow the NHWF to address the 21st century needs of NH women, girls and boys in perpetuity. We are offering a $50,000 challenge to grow the Endowment held at the NHCF by matching all gifts of $1,000 and above designated to this endowment before the end of 2015.”
To designate your gift, please contact Marianne or Ellen at the NHWF office, 603-226-3355.